What Mr. and Ms. Grounded Know about Life…

What if you were able to stay grounded, no matter what your day threw at you? Take a look at the qualities and behaviors of The Grounded Woman and The Grounded Man.

The Grounded Woman

␣ Knows how to take a deep breath and a little time to calm down.

␣ Is forgiving of herself in every moment.

␣ Has no problem prioritizing items on her to-do list, or even dropping tasks from the list.

␣ Realizes that she was only given two hands, and is comfortable delegating responsibilities to others.

␣ Knows the meaning of “one day at a time.”

␣ Puts herself up on a pedestal.

␣ Gives herself the accolades due for a day well done, even if others are not recognizing her efforts.

The Grounded Man

␣ Takes good care of his body and mind by making the commitment to exercise and eat in a healthy way.

␣ Has learned to follow his heart in his career/busines path and in love, rather than making choices to meet others’ expectations.

␣ Cultivates good friendships with other men and feels comfortable being open with his emotions.

␣ Knows that feelings of sadness and fear are healthy and will heal faster when they are released rather than suppressed.

␣ Balances his drive with fun and adventure. ␣ Knows that laughter and balance feed his soul and therefore will feed his personal and professional life.

After reading about Mr. and Ms. Grounded, what changes do you want to make that would help you feel less frazzled and more fulfilled? Can you think of any improvements that would help you feel grounded that were not on either of the above lists?

What do you think about Mr. and Ms. Grounded? Leave a comment and give me your thoughts on this topic.

Allison Maslan is the CEO of Allison Maslan International. She was recently named “One of the Top Women Entrepreneurs Who Inspire” by Self Made Magazine. A born entrepreneur and No. 1 Best Selling Author of the book, Blast Off! The Surefire Success Plan to Launch Your Dreams Into Reality, Allison has built nine successful companies from the ground up starting out as a single mom on her own. Get a copy of her Free CD, The 8 Secrets of Successful Entrepreneurs. http://www.myblastoff.com/freecd.html

These people will reach their Pinnacle in 2011

Congratulations! You have completed the first week of 2011.

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On January 22nd, The Pinnacle, my most powerful, year

long coaching and mastermind program will begin.

Once this group is closed, there will be no other

entry point all year long. We only have a few spots left!

‘Jumping with Both Feet’ is a must to create big dreams & big profits.

As a life and business strategist, I take my clients through a process to find their true calling so they can turn it into a business. Or we work to expand the business they already have while making it much more fun on a daily basis. Once we get clarity on the direction, I help them get creative and design what I call, their Big Picture Vision, which is a window into how they want their business and other aspects of their life to unfold.

Most people get very bold during this phase and dream big, which is what I like to see, and honestly what is necessary to take your reality up several notches. They get very enthusiastic about growing a fantastically profitable and fulfilling business, so we put the plan and structure into place.

Then it is time to take this big, bold dream and put it into action, because at this point, it is all fantasy until you take it out of your head and start moving toward it. I call this the “Jumping In With Both Feet” phase. Invariably, they begin to get scared and ask to take it slow and test the waters instead of diving in wholeheartedly. With the best intentions, they might say, “maybe I’m not ready for that kind of success”, or “I’m not sure if what I have to offer is valuable.” They start talking themselves off the ledge saying, “I cannot spend the money right now because I am feeling stuck financially.” Read more »

Fun and Powerful Tips To Re-Invent Yourself for 2011

Are you ready to re-invent yourself?

So many people get all enthused at the New Year to start fresh with a whole new ‘go after it’ attitude and then, three weeks or so later, they fall back into old habits that did not serve them the year before, but seem to want to hang on tightly. What can you do differently this time? How can you ensure success long after January?

First of all, you need to have a plan.

When you have a plan you are much more likely to stick to it rather than a wish you casually throw into the sky. Follow these 4 steps to make the process easy, fun and successful:

Evaluate where you are in each area of your life. I recommend being brutally honest. Not to be hard on yourself because there is no point in that, but to give you a starting place.Get a piece of paper and lay it down horizontally. On the left side write a vertical list of the current status of your health, career, financial status, love life, living space, style, fun life and attitude. (Of course, there are more areas, such as our children, pets and so on, but this is about re-inventing you. When you take care of you, it is amazing how those around you begin to shift as well.)

Time to design your new life. This is the fun part… Read more »

‘Happy Enough’- How We Accept Less Than The Pinnacle of Joy

Guest Blogger, colleague and dear friend, Lynn Serafinn, explores the many ways our inner fears contribute to our stopping short of unbridled Joy in our lives.

PICTURED LEFT: photo of an actual wooden “stairway to heaven” ascending more than 50 metres, used by the famous “Voladores de Papantla” in Central America, whose breathtaking annual springtime “flying” ritual is famous worldwide.

A few years ago, I enrolled on a mega-personal-development course where I had to complete a series of physical challenges, many involving heights. One of the first challenges was to climb up to a balance beam about 25 feet high and walk across it–blindfolded. Of course, there was absolutely no danger involved, as all of us had secure harnesses attached to our bodies, with a team of strong people ensuring our safety at all times. But the ego-mind is very good at creating its own messages, even if your logical brain knows you are perfectly safe. And what is so interesting is that Read more »

Leave The Pain of Your Past Relationships in the Past

One of the biggest roadblocks in creating a soul-matched relationship is that we tend to bring our pain and baggage from past relationships into our present ones, and even into our search for the right one. If you have been hurt in the past, it is understandable that you may have developed issues with trust and confidence in your subsequent partners. The fact is that no partner is the same. Even though you may be holding onto past traumas or disappointments, this does not mean that every partner to follow will behave in this same way.

There is a tendency to project, or put onto other people, the fear, grief or resentment of our past. When in reality, this person does not represent those things at all. However, because you may believe this to be true because of your history, your fear and behavior around this issue may bring the worst out of someone you love.

The result is what we call a self-fulfilling prophecy, in that we end up bringing upon ourselves what we fear most. For instance, if you have fear of abandonment Read more »

Who Are The Moms In Your Life?

Today we give our love and respect to our mom’s and the mothers in our lives. We give gratitude for the love and nurturing that they have given us day after day throughout all of our highs and lows. Over the past 15 years in my practice, I have observed the love that naturally exudes from a mother countless times, and I am always humbled by this powerful energy. This love is primal, strong and protective, and at the same time soft, insightful and wise. The love that a mother offers is the feminine principal of our world, and I believe, the sanity of our existence. The mothers ignite our hearts and illuminate the compassionate, loving energy for both men and women to carry to the forefront of our lives. The mothers you know may have appeared in your life in traditional and non-traditional ways, and they have appeared to give you the nurturing necessary for you to not only survive, but to thrive. Whether the mothering influence in your life came from your birth mother, adoptive mom, aunt, grandmother, family friend or other loving soul, this beautiful lady deserves to be recognized, appreciated and embraced for the pivotal role she has played in your life. My mom has been my inspiration. Believe me, I was not the easiest child to raise. (Just a tad stubborn, demanding and rebellious.) But my mom hung in there with me and always encouraged me to follow my dreams. She has overcome cancer and at 78 does not miss a day at the gym. This is one strong lady! And there was Bobbie who helped raise my brother and sister and I. I love her dearly as my other mom. So this Mother’s Day, think about all the mom’s that have guided you along the way. And some way, some how, find a way to say … “Thanks, Mom!” __________________________________________________ If You Are Looking For Something Amazing and Unforgettable to Give To Mom… Give her (and/or yourself) the gift of creating a brand new path of passion, clarity and empowerment. Register by Mother’s Day for my Blast Off! Find Your Passion Bootcamp on May 21-23, in beautiful San Diego, and receive an amazing bonus gift. 1 Free 1-on-1 Blast Off Coaching Conference with me! (Value $500) If you or someone you love has been talking about making changes in your (or their)  life or career, but have no idea what that could be or how to make it happen… that chance has finally arrived. In this rare event, I am going to work closely with you to make your dreams come true. If you don’t take this opportunity, another year will go by and you may still be talking and yearning … instead of living. SO COME FLY WITH ME! We will bust through your fears and release old stifling patterns to create a life and career you are excited about every single day! You cannot afford to miss this special event, my 3–Day Blast Off Boot Camp in San Diego. We will tap into your passion, even if it is buried deep. Then create a prosperous, fun and fulfilling road map. And I will give you my secret steps to bring it into reality. Then I will guide you on the flying trapeze to bust you through your fears and open your horizons. No worries! You are in safety lines and completely safe and supported. I am pouring my heart and soul into this event because I absolutely love to help my clients realize their full potential and reach their dreams. I am taking my 6-month Blast Off Coaching Program and condensing it into 3 powerful, life-changing days. If you are tired of feeling stuck and are finally ready to take your life and career to the next level, this is the opportunity you have been waiting for. And it will be a long time before I lead it again, so don’t miss your chance. I had been a stay-at-home mom and my kids were leaving the house and I found myself kind of forced to step into the next phase of my life and I really had no idea what I wanted to do … I thought “What the heck? I’m going to call Allison” … my whole life is richer because I started this journey with her and I’m doing things now I never thought possible. Ann Marie Bryan CEO & Founder of My Visual History I am going to teach you the secret formula that I have  developed to create success in my life and for so many others. I am keeping the group small so you will get lots of attention from me. Yes! I will be standing right by your side to guide you every step of the way. Bring a friend and receive a $200 discount! (e-mail us if you want to take advantage of the friend bonus) This event is a fraction of the cost to coach with me one-on-one, however, in this unbelievable 3–Day Bootcamp, you will finally get clarity on what the next magical phase of your life needs to be. You will walk away with a plan to make it happen. And there is more… I am also going to give 2 private, follow-up teleseminars only for my 3-Day Bootcamp attendees to make sure you are taking all that you have learned and implementing the changes into your life. The calls will be very tailored to your needs and goals. Plus.. everyone attending will receive a 6 month subscription to Blastation, Online Life and Business Success Program so you can implement at home everything we design for you during the bootcamp. Some of us find our way the minute we start looking for a change, and some of us need a little help getting our direction. I needed help, but however you succeed doesn’t really matter—just as long as you get there. Allison’s Blast Off! to Success Program, if you’re truly ready, will help you get there. SAM ZIEN The Cooking Guy Click here to find out more information and to register. The Free Bonus 1-on-1 Coaching Conference is only offered until Mother’s Day, so don’t miss out! Contact us of you have any questions and for assistance with your hotel booking. I cannot wait. There are people flying in from far and wide to experience this extraordinary Blast Off! weekend. I hope to see you there! Allison Allison Maslan, HHP, CCH Blast Off Life Coaching and Speaking/CEO Homeopathic Wellness Center/ Director             www.MyBlastOff.com 858-794-0787 888-844-3550

Why I Don’t Run from Valentine’s Day Anymore!

Blast Off To A Brand New Life!

Are there any areas in your life that you are limiting yourself? Be totally honest.  In your career, is there something you would just LOVE to be doing, but have no idea how to make it happen? Or maybe you feel intimidated to even try? What if you knew that your new venture or challenge would be a sure thing. You would go for it. Wouldn’t you?

In your relationship, have you settled in your choices because you’re afraid you might not find anyone better? Do you stay in your current relationship because of fear?

There are 3 key barriers that tend to hold people back from venturing out into the wild blue yonder.

Fear. Fear of failure, fear of success, fear of being judged, fear of the unknown, fear of loss of security, fear of not enjoying your choices…I could go on.

Disconnection from Passion. You know that feeling. The one that fills you up with bubbles of excitement and satisfaction. Often hard to get there when you have felt stuck, held back, trapped for some time.

Lack of direction. You may not be afraid. You may know exactly what you want to do. But you have no idea how to make it happen. This is not an uncommon scenario.

Can you relate? I want to hear from you….tell me your stories.

What if you had a book that helped you solve the mystery to all three barriers? I know where you would be right now.

Dancing in the streets!

In my book, Blast Off! The Surefire Success Plan To Launch Your Dreams Into Reality, that is being released on January 19th, I unlock the mystery of  ”what is holding you back from living the life you truly desire.” Then, together, I help you put one step in front of the other as we devise a new plan. Your very own roadmap to a brand new life.

” Blast Off really helps the reader break through their barriers of fear, guides them to tap into their deeper passions, and then gives them the tools to create a step-by-step roadmap toward their big picture visions in their personal and professional life. Then they know exactly what to do on a daily basis to move these dreams from their head into reality. ~ Allison Maslan

My special gift to you… when you buy my book Blast Off! on January 19th, 2010, you will receive over 20 unbelievably awesome bonus e-books, dvd’s, audio’s, courses from top authors and coaches that have graciously teamed up with me to celebrate this momentous occasion. For only $16.00, the price of my book on Amazon, you will receive hundreds of dollars in coaching, support and guidance. www.myblastoff.com/booklaunch It does not get much better than that!

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My dream is to help as many people step outside of their comfort zone and grab hold of life’s possibilities. My book, Blast Off! can change lives.  Help me to get the word out. Pass this link on to your friends, family…. anyone you love that needs a big, bold nudge! www.myblastoff.com/booklaunch. (Sign up for my launch reminder so you don’t miss it!)

Here’s to your radiating success!!

Allison

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Day 116 Blast Off Blog Countdown- Big Love

Hello again.  It is day  116 of my  dream come true blog countdown for my Blast Off Book launch on January 19th.. In my last entry, I told you the sad story of closing the door on my then book deal. Little did I know what  was in store for me down the road. A crystal ball would have saved me so much grief!  Now don’t feel sorry for me. I failed to mention another  aspect of my life that was igniting (in a good way), at the same time that my dream of being a published  author was drifting away like a dense  fog. You see, like most sentimental poets , I wanted to be in love. And I don’t mean a crush or a pleasant  connection, I wanted the BIG LOVE. Firecrackers, LaLALA (Okay. You get the picture.)  The kind you see in the romance movie as you sit there feeling completely depressed because what they have seems so far from your reality. It wasn’t as if I hadn’t tried! Oh, I had tried. I was your serial monogamist with a flare for frogs. I am really not being mean. They were all really cute in a toadish kind of way. I am sure they thought I was just as amphibiously inclined. Anyway, back to the Big LOVE.  I had been successful in my career, I was a good mom, but there was still that emptiness lingering inside.  And if one more person told me that I needed to learn to enjoy being by myself, I was going to scream. Why did I have to love to live alone? I like being with people. This is the way human nature set us up. Look at mammals. They travel in packs. Fish in schools, birds in flocks….

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