Today I have the great pleasure of being the host on Day 15 of the Virtual Blog Tour of author Carolyn A. Brent whose book Why Wait? The Baby Boomers’ Guide to Preparing Emotionally, Financially and Legally for a Parent’s Death launches on Amazon on Tuesday November 15, 2011.
Carolyn is a member of my Pinnacle Mastermind Program and I am beyond impressed with her passion and her mission.
Author Carolyn A. Brent, M.B.A. is a former clinical educational manager in the pharmaceutical industry. She is an avid activist and advocate working with the U.S. Congress for the purpose of creating change to protect seniors and veterans from financial and medical abuse. She has appeared on many local and national TV and radio shows, and is a sought-after keynote speaker.
Yesterday, Carolyn visited Andrew Mondia at http://www.andyinspire.com/special-guest-writers/why-wait-a-new-book-by-carolyn-a-brent-interview where they talked about the role itself, family involvement and death.
Today, I’d like to share with you a recent interview I had with Carolyn Brent, an amazing woman and powerful member of my Pinnacle Mastermind Program. I was honored to ask her some questions on her story, work and importance of crucial conversation. I hope you enjoy it.
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Allison Maslan: What is your personal story that led you to write this book?
Carolyn A. Brent: Through struggling with the legal, medical, financial, and familial issues that come up when adult children handle such matters poorly (whether due to denial or to strife), I discovered there were no books on what needs to be covered and planned for, written from the perspective of siblings. Siblings have special needs at such times and, ideally, can be of great comfort to one another. I found no books that discussed the ideal scenario of sibling conversations versus the worst-case scenario of no conversations, as well as cases when sibling rivalry and resentment are allowed to interfere with planning and care. My siblings and I are living proof that this can go very, very wrong, leading to no one’s benefit: neither the children’s, nor the parent’s.
The more research I did, the more committed I became to spreading the important message that planning is critical, and families must begin talking to one another as early as possible. For the past few years I’ve traveled across the country giving lectures at churches and to members of organizations with an interest in these issues, and I’ve spoken with numerous family caregivers. I set up CaregiverStory.com to disseminate resources to help family caregivers. I’ve gone on radio and television. I’ve worked to pass new laws in Congress. Now I’ve written Why Wait?
Allison Maslan: What is your work with members of congress to help change legislation?
Carolyn A. Brent: Currently, I am working with both to the United States Congress and State, toward making the Federal Government and State officials responsible for upholding the decisions and elder person have made about the appointment of a financial fiduciary and medical representative, in the event of their disability and protecting those whom they select. My goal in life is to empower caregivers and their family members with knowledge of possible challenges they might face together while caring for an aging parent.
Allison Maslan: Why is it important to have crucial emotional conversations with parents, siblings and other family members?
Carolyn A. Brent: Why Wait? is designed to guide you through a series of crucial conversations with your aging parent (or parents),
and with your siblings, so that you and your family will be well prepared for your parent’s end-of-life physical, mental, and emotional challenges and ultimate death.
It is important to have a one-on-one with your parent, as well as in conjunction with your siblings. Siblings also need to be able to communicate well with one another. It is best to begin talking, to resolve relationship conflicts from the past or present, and to make decisions when your parent is healthy and has a sharp mind, so that should an illness, an accident, or another type of emergency occur, you can focus on those acute sudden needs and your relationship. However, a conversation may be even more necessary if you’ve waited and your parent is ailing. When death comes, proper planning and calm, rational, purposeful, honest, well-intentioned conversations can lessen or prevent family conflict.
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I hope you enjoyed this interview with Carolyn A. Brent and that you’ll check out her book Why Wait? The Baby Boomers’ Guide to Preparing Emotionally, Financially and Legally for a Parent’s Death at http://www.babyboomersguide.org/book-launch/pre-launch.html
Here Are Two Reasons Why:
FREE 3-DAY PASS
When you visit the page at the link above and request a “launch reminder”, you will automatically receive a FREE pass to Carolyn’s 3-day “Why Wait? Telesummit”, with a panel leading experts preparing emotionally, financially and legally for the death of a parent. You can listen to the telesummit online in the comfort of your own home, and even ask questions during the broadcast.
This telesummit is a completely free
“no purchase necessary” gift from Carolyn
To register, go to
http://www.babyboomersguide.org/book-launch/telesummit.html
FREE GIFTS
When you buy Carolyn’s book on Tuesday November 15, 2011, you can ALSO receive a complete library of beautiful personal development gifts from authors, speakers, coaches and other enlightened professionals from around the globe including one from me
FREE CD: “8 Millionaire Success Secrets for Entrepreneurs”
To claim your 3-Day Pass and read about the free gifts, go to: http://www.babyboomersguide.org/book-launch/pre-launch.html
Thanks for reading! As usual, please feel free to share your comments and thoughts below. I love reading your feedback.
Today is her last day but if you joined along the way and would like to follow to the first day… we visited Glenn M Smith at http://sensitiveselfhelp.com/interview-with-carolyn-a-brent-author-of-why-wait , where they talked about her work and other subjects.
Named One of the Top Women Entrepreneurs Who Inspire Us by Self-Made Magazine, Allison Maslan is a No. 1 Bestselling Author, a serial entrepreneur who has built 10 successful companies from the ground up. Pres. of Blast Off! Business & Life Mentoring and The Pinnacle Mastermind Program. http://www.myblastoff.com
author Carolyn A. Brent whose book Why Wait? The Baby Boomers’ Guide to Preparing
Emotionally, Financially and Legally for a Parent’s Death launches on Amazon on
Tuesday November 15, 2011.
Author Carolyn A. Brent, M.B.A. is a former clinical educational manager in the
pharmaceutical industry. She is an avid activist and advocate working with the U.S. Congress
for the purpose of creating change to protect seniors and veterans from financial and medical
abuse. She has appeared on many local and national TV and radio shows, and is a sought-after
keynote speaker.
Yesterday, Carolyn visited Andrew Mondia at http://www.andyinspire.com/special-guest-
writers/why-wait-a-new-book-by-carolyn-a-brent-interview where they talked about the role
itself, family involvement and death.
Today, I’d like to share with you a recent interview I had with Carolyn when I got to ask her
some questions on her story, work and importance of crucial conversation. I hope you enjoy it.
——-
Allison Maslan: What is your personal story that led you to write this book?
Carolyn A. Brent: Through struggling with the legal, medical, financial, and familial issues
that come up when adult children handle such matters poorly (whether due to denial or to
strife), I discovered there were no books on what needs to be covered and planned for, written
from the perspective of siblings. Siblings have special needs at such times and, ideally, can be
of great comfort to one another. I found no books that discussed the ideal scenario of sibling
conversations versus the worst-case scenario of no conversations, as well as cases when
sibling rivalry and resentment are allowed to interfere with planning and care. My siblings and
I are living proof that this can go very, very wrong, leading to no one’s benefit: neither the
children’s, nor the parent’s.
The more research I did, the more committed I became to spreading the important message
that planning is critical, and families must begin talking to one another as early as possible.
For the past few years I’ve travelled across the country giving lectures at churches and to
members of organizations with an interest in these issues, and I’ve spoken with numerous
family caregivers. I set up CaregiverStory.com to disseminate resources to help family
caregivers. I’ve gone on radio and television. I’ve worked to pass new laws in Congress. Now
I’ve written Why Wait?
Allison Maslan: What is your work with members of congress to help change legislation?
Carolyn A. Brent: Currently, I am working with both to the United States Congress and
State, toward making the Federal Government and State officials responsible for upholding
the decisions and elder person have made about the appointment of a financial fiduciary and
medical representative, in the event of their disability and protecting those whom they select.
My goal in life is to empower caregivers and their family members with knowledge of possible
challenges they might face together while caring for an aging parent.
Allison Maslan: Why is it important to have crucial emotional conversations with parents,
siblings and other family members?
Carolyn A. Brent: Why Wait? is designed to guide you through a series of crucial
conversations with your aging parent (or parents), and with your siblings, so that you and
your family will be well prepared for your parent’s end-of-life physical, mental, and emotional
challenges and ultimate death.
It is important to have a one-on-one with your parent, as well as in conjunction with your
siblings. Siblings also need to be able to communicate well with one another. It is best to
begin talking, to resolve relationship conflicts from the past or present, and to make decisions
when your parent is healthy and has a sharp mind, so that should an illness, an accident,
or another type of emergency occur, you can focus on those acute sudden needs and your
relationship. However, a conversation may be even more necessary if you’ve waited and your
parent is ailing. When death comes, proper planning and calm, rational, purposeful, honest,
well-intentioned conversations can lessen or prevent family conflict.
———-
I hope you enjoyed this interview with Carolyn A. Brent and that you’ll check out her book
Why Wait? The Baby Boomers’ Guide to Preparing Emotionally, Financially and
Legally for a Parent’s Death at http://www.babyboomersguide.org/book-launch/pre-
launch.html
Here Are Two Reasons Why:
FREE 3-DAY PASS
When you visit the page at the link above and request a “launch reminder”, you will
automatically receive a FREE pass to Carolyn’s 3-day “Why Wait? Telesummit”, with a panel
leading experts preparing emotionally, financially and legally for the death of a parent. You
can listen to the telesummit online in the comfort of your own home, and even ask questions
during the broadcast.
This telesummit is a completely free “no purchase necessary” gift from Carolyn
To register, go to
http://www.babyboomersguide.org/book-launch/telesummit.html
FREE GIFTS
When you buy Carolyn’s book on Tuesday November 15, 2011, you can ALSO receive a
complete library of beautiful personal development gifts from authors, speakers, coaches and
other enlightened professionals from around the globe including one from me
FREE CD: “8 Millionaire Success Secrets for Entrepreneurs”
To claim your 3-Day Pass and read about the free gifts, go to: http://
www.babyboomersguide.org/book-launch/pre-launch.html
Thanks for reading! As usual, please feel free to share your comments and thoughts below. I
love reading your feedback.
Today is her last day but if you joined along the way and would like to follow to the first day…
we visited Glenn M Smith at http://sensitiveselfhelp.com/interview-with-carolyn-a-brent-
author-of-why-wait , where they talked about her work and other subjects.
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